You See Emotional Intelligence Every Day!

At this time, we want to show you, beyond the shadow of a doubt, that emotional intelligence affects your life every single day.   We will later be sharing research, but first let's prove it for yourself.  You have seen emotional intelligence but may not have known what it was.  You have seen it in your relationships, in your tasks, in your feelings and behavior, and in the people all around you.

* Your Relationships: Think of someone you have related to over a significant period of time that you have some conflicts with.  Despite conversation and sharing of both points of view, you still disagree.  You see it one way and the other person sees it very differently.  What you do irritates them and or what they do irritates you.   Yet, there are other people you find very easy to relate to.  You naturally get along with them with very little effort. 

* Your Tasks:  Now think about work or tasks that you have found unpleasant to do.  You know you can do it but you just don't want to.  Perhaps you do it half-heartedly and may not do it as well as you know you can.  Somehow, others seem to like the task although its hard to imagine how they could.  Other tasks or jobs you really like to do and find easy to do.  It may be hard for some others but not to you.

* Your Feelings and Actions:   Sometimes you find yourself wanting to do or doing what you know you shouldn't do.   Some motivation from inside you pushes you.  Sometimes you feel stress where others feel less.